What Do I Do if I Don’t Find My Spouse Physically Attractive Anymore?

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A common question I get is “What do I do if I don’t find my spouse physically attractive anymore? Can we move past this?” I see positive elements of hope in the way these questions are worded. This person acknowledges awareness, they know that they are missing feelings or thoughts about their partner that they once had. Secondly, they are seeking help. Thirdly, they want to move beyond the problem, and they want to save their relationship. This is a solid starting point to “move past this.”